Category Archives: books

The best pregnancy books for first time moms

I’ve plowed through dozens of books about pregnancy and childbirth.  Most were informative, many were interesting, some were opinionated, some were decidedly NOT opinionated.  When push comes to shove, though, you’ve got to have your go-to books, those you value above all the rest and turn to whenever you have a question.  These are mine.

Great Expectations: Your All-in-One Resource for Pregnancy & Childbirth by Sandy Jones and Marcie Jones.

This is the best of the best, for this reason: it breaks down your pregnancy week by week.  Each of these sections includes the following topics:

  • the baby’s size
  • the baby’s development
  • what’s happening to you physically
  • your emotions
  • what you can do this week

I get an e-mail every week from BabyCenter with week by week info, but sometimes it’s nice to have it on the nightstand or in the car with me.  This book is factual and has opinions “where it counts” (i.e. breastfeeding and exercise), but doesn’t go over the top telling you what to do our what not to do.  It explains risks and benefits instead.

What to Expect When You’re Expecting – 4th Edition by Heidi Murkof and Sharon Mazel

I’ve used both the third and fourth editions of What to Expect, and I would highly recommend the fourth edition.  While it doesn’t have quite the same weekly detail as Great Expectations, this edition does give a weekly breakdown of your baby’s development.  In my opinion, the best part about this book is the monthly (and extremely timely) question and answers.  The index is also fantastic, so if you do have a question that the book hasn’t addressed in your current month, you can easily look it up.

My Latest Reads…

Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix (Harry Potter, #5)Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix by J.K. Rowling

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

The series is definitely veering toward the complex! I’ve gone ahead and read the next book before I reviewed this one, though, so now my thoughts of the two are muddled together. Still loving the series!

Mockingjay (The Hunger Games, #3)Mockingjay by Suzanne Collins

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I listened to this in audiobook form, and had a hard time taking out the earbuds! While it wasn’t quite as intriguing as the first book, The Hunger Games, I was very impressed. I enjoyed that the series started in a tight knit circle around Katniss, and by the end of Mockingjay all of Panem was in the mix. And, without giving away any spoilers, I was VERY happy with Katniss’s romantic decision at the end of the series!

Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince (Harry Potter, #6)Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book left me hanging, which I detest. I was not particularly happy with the end – though I realize it’s part of a series, there was no closure. That being said… I can’t wait to dive into the next one! I’ve read the series before, yet somehow managed to forget nearly every detail of every book. Very handy, as I’ve been enjoying my re-reads in thorough suspense.

The Silent GovernessThe Silent Governess by Julie Klassen

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book was NOT what I expected (in a good way!). I enjoy Christian fiction, but often find it overbearing or pushy. The Silent Governess, on the other hand, had spirituality/religion as an underlying tone with brief references. I was very impressed that it was able to convey it’s message without using pages and pages to talk about God’s Word.

That being said… the story was also very well done. I’m a sucker for historical romances, so this was right up my alley.

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Young Adult Book Reviews – Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, The Hunger Games, and Catching Fire

The Hunger Games (The Hunger Games, #1)The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

My husband and I read this aloud to each other – a chapter a night to begin with. As the pace picked up, it was hard to stop reading, so we often bumped it up to two chapters. It was a page-turner, but at the same time a book to savor. My next reads will definitely be Catching Fire and Mockingjay.

Catching Fire (The Hunger Games, #2)Catching Fire by Suzanne Collins

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Like the Harry Potter series, this series has been intensifying as it continues. The first book, The Hunger Games, focused on Katniss, her immediate circle of family and friends, and her personal problems. The second book expands – no longer is the worry soley for Katniss – it’s now for Panem as a whole. I’m look forward to the third and final book – and a revolution, perhaps?

Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (Harry Potter, #4)Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire by J.K. Rowling

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This book was the first in the series that turned quite a bit darker. No longer are we talking a vague sense of evil, or Voldemort vs. Harry Potter – it’s getting more complicated. I was a huge fan of the book and can’t wait to re-read the final three.

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His Needs Her Needs Review

His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof MarriageHis Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley Jr.

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book was very hands-on and interactive, which I appreciated. It includes quite a few worksheets, quizzes, and personal questions. The only problem I had with this book was the “blame the victim” philosophy, though I understand how it’s helpful in preventing affairs.

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Redeeming Love – Book Review

Redeeming LoveRedeeming Love by Francine Rivers

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This story was one of my “guilty pleasure” books. I feel like Christian historical fiction isn’t as literary or high-brow as many other books I could choose; however I am always left with such a positive feeling after finishing a book that I’ll let myself get lost in it every so often!

This particular book was beautifully written. Michael’s character was unrealistic – too good to be true – but on a whole I felt that the plot, characters, and writing were inspiring.

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The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo – book review

The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (Millennium, #1)The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo by Stieg Larsson

My rating: 3 of 5 stars

If you can get past the really slow start, the book picks up steam. I nearly abandoned it altogether, but I decided to give it 50 pages before I’d let it go. Somewhere between pages 30 and 40, I got hooked.

It didn’t take me very long to finish – I couldn’t put it down. Its intricate plot was fascinating. That being said, I can’t say that I loved the book, or that I’d be eager to read any other books in the series. While the characters were likable, they had major, major flaws – enough to detract from the book as a whole.

Overall, I’m glad I read it, if only to see what the buzz has been about.

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Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage – Book Review

Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage: America's Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your RelationshipTen Lessons to Transform Your Marriage: America’s Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship by John Gottman

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

When I first looked at the chapter titles, I was turned off.  With chapters like “We don’t feel close anymore,” “You never talk to me” and “You don’t care about my dreams,” I was skeptical – we have a happy and loving relationship, and those problems just don’t apply to us. I had heard so much hype about the book, though, that I gave it a chance anyway – and I am so glad I did. It’s easily the best marriage book I’ve read since Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. The chapters are pertinent to many situations, not just the title problems. My favorite part? The activities to do (alone or with your spouse) that get at the heart of couple issues. One of the main threads I saw in the book was that couples should try to discuss feelings underlying problems as opposed to simply finding an immediate solution, and the activities seemed to facilitate that.

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Another Reading Challenge (and it’s a good one)

May I recommend yet another reading challenge?


The It’s Not What You Read But Where You Read It Challenge 2011 - read for an hour in each of seven categories (twist your house, place of commerce, move, nature, you don’t call home, probably shouldn’t, and in pairs)

According to the challenge’s creator over at I Heart Monster, the categories are defined as follows.  (My notes are in italics.)
Twist Your House
Read somewhere inside your house that you have never sat (or stood I suppose) and read before.  It could be the bathroom (but I won’t ’cause I think, ew gross), the bathtub, the corner, the closet, the guest bedroom, the dining room table – it just can’t be somewhere that you’ve read before.  Think outside the box.   Basement?  Yuck.  The closet?  Cramped.  This will take some creative thinking.  As I occasionally carry my book around the house with me, reading as I walk, there aren’t many places I haven’t read.

Place of Commerce
Read somewhere that things are sold.  Coffee shop? Sure.  While you’re waiting for your wife to try on clothes?  Absolutely.  At the fountain at the mall while you’re scoping out guys?  Uh, that’s a stretch but give it a try.  This is a good excuse to get a few refills on a cup of coffee at Copper Rock!

Move
Read on the bus, on a train, on the light rail, on a plane, in a car, while you’re walking, while you’re on the treadmill at the gym.  It doesn’t have to be somewhere you haven’t read before, just somewhere where you are moving through space.  I think I’ll be bringing my book to the YMCA next time I go… but then again, that isn’t exactly unusual!

Nature
This one could be hard for city folk, but there is a park somewhere, right?  The requirement is that you are sitting/standing on something that isn’t manmade.  Man could have planted it, but not created it.  Granite countertop?  Um no.  Granite boulder?  Um yeah.  This one may need to wait a few months until the state isn’t covered with two feet of snow.  At that point, though, I have plenty of options!

You Don’t Call Home
Out of state?  Sure.  At your neighbor’s house?  Sure.  Hotel?  Yup.  But it can’t do double duty for any of the other categories.  An excuse to take a vacation, perhaps?  That might be stretching it… but just maybe…

Probably Shouldn’t
Think work, church, grocery shopping.  DO NOT READ WHILE DRIVING OR RIDING YOUR BIKE OR ROLLERBLADING/SKATING.  BE SAFE.  Be creative.  Hmm… another thinker.  How about tonight, when I really should be going to my grandparents’ 62nd wedding anniversary dinner?  No?  You mean I should actually go to that?

In Pairs
I don’t care where you are as long as someone else in the room is reading their own book too.  Before bed with the hubbie?  Sure.  In a hotel lobby?  Absolutely.  In a bookstore?  Dude, you get the picture.  I’ll have this one covered by tomorrow night.  It’s what we do on a daily basis!

How creative!  Any excuse to read is a good one.  I think that of all the reading challenges I’ve signed up for, this is the one I’m most excited for!

Fireproof – Book Review

FireproofFireproof by Eric Wilson

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This was a beautiful, inspiring story that was much more true-to-life than most other books I’ve read that are classified as “realistic fiction.” I’m looking forward to watching the movie, as this was a novelization of the screenplay.

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On the Bookshelf: My next 40 books to read


Kate’s bookshelf: to-read



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Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban – Book Review

Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban (Harry Potter, #3)Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban by J.K. Rowling

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

The best Harry Potter book in the series to this point! Rowling’s writing in this book is far better than her previous two. My issues with her “remember when…”-ing in the second book (HP and the Chamber of Secrets) was dealt with. While the characters did reminisce at times, they did it in a way that was not distracting to the current plot. Two thumbs up, five stars, hooray!

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Sounder – Book Review

SounderSounder by William H. Armstrong

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

As a teacher, my first thoughts when reading (or in this case, listening to) a book are for children. I really, really enjoyed this book as an adult, though I wouldn’t recommend it for elementary school children unless an older grade was reading it together.

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goodreads

I know I blogged a few days ago about my new favorite website.  But now, really, here is my actual new favorite website:


Goodreads is an unbelievable tool.  Every time I log in, I find something else on it that I just adore.  Some of my favorite features:

Links to my local library
When I find a book I’d like to check out, there’s a button that I can hit that automatically finds that book at my city’s public library.  I hit reserve, and *BAM* next time I go to the library, it’s waiting on my hold shelf.  This is without me going through the motions of pulling up a new browser window, finding the library webpage, typing in the title of the book, choosing the one I actually am looking for, etc. etc.  I did have to set it up initially, but it took me all of five minutes and I was rolling.

Easy blog entries
Once I’ve written a blog review and have hit “save,” a window pops up with some html code for me to copy and paste into my blog.  The cover art, links to the title and author, my rating, my comments, and a link to my goodreads bookshelf are already there.  It saves quite a bit of time from how I used to post book reviews in the  “olden days” (one month ago).

Easy, searchable storage for my book lists
Entering books into my “to-read,” “read,” or “currently reading” lists was set up from the beginning – simple as a click of a button (well, two clicks of a mouse).  I also set up a few more “shelves” to categorize my books into.

A bookshop window display
One of my favorite features of book lists is the ability to browse by cover.  It’s as though all of the books I’m dying to read are all being displayed in the front window of the bookstore.

**A note… goodreads is not giving me any compensation for this review.  I just love it that much!

Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets – Book Review

Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets (Harry Potter, #2)Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets by J.K. Rowling

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Fantastic! This was my second or third time reading the book, and I’m certainly not tired of it yet. It still amazes me how many hints and foreshadowing comments the book gives that wasn’t as meaningful to me last time around. My only complaint about this book is the frequency and manner in which past events are restated. “Harry thought back to his first year, when Hagrid…” or “During their first year at Hogwarts…” I do realize this need to be done somehow to bring new readers up to speed or to remind any reader, but when these types of sentences were still being stated 3/4 of the way through the book, it seemed a little overdone.

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My New Favorite Website

InfoSoup has a page dedicated to award winners that is unbelievable.  Only 24 hours ago I was complaining to my husband that I wanted to have a website devoted to award winning books that you didn’t need to click around fourteen times to find a description for any given book.  And I found it – on our local library page!

I’d write more about it, but I can’t stand the suspense any longer – I’m off to the library!

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone – Book Review

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (Harry Potter, #1)Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone by J.K. Rowling

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I’ve read this book at least four times now, and I’m still surprised by all of the intricate twists and turns the book takes – especially when considering that this is the first book of a seven part series. I can only imagine the planning that must have gone into it. Rowling alludes to things in the first book that don’t make sense or aren’t fully explained until multiple books into the series. Aside from re-reading the other six books this year, I’d also like to find a J.K. Rowling biography. Any recommendations?

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Reading Challenges

One of my reading goals is to participate in reading challenges.  I think this will give me more of a purpose for reading.

The Mini YA Reading Challenge – Read 12 Young Adult novels

“Fun Size” Support Your Local Library Challenge – Read 40 books from the library

Christian Fiction Reading Challenge – Read 12 Christian based fiction books

Severe Bookaholism Historical Fiction Challenge 2011 – Read 20 historical fiction books

Last but not least (and I can’t find a specific challenge for this, so if you hear of one please let me know), I’d like to read on award winning or nominated books – 20 for the year.

What do you think?  Too many?

She’s Come Undone – Book Review

She's Come UndoneShe’s Come Undone by Wally Lamb

My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I didn’t know what I was in for when I started She’s Come Undone, other than it was an Oprah’s book club pick and on sale for 50 cents at a used book store. At times, you wanted to slap the main character, Delores, in the face, and at other times you wanted to cry for all the pain she was in. It certainly made me consider how I view people with mental problems and how they are just that – people who have had a rougher time than most, or who deal with their problems in unhealthy ways.

This book left me with a melancholy feeling the entire time I was reading it, which I wasn’t a fan of, but I was more than content with the ending, so I can’t complain too much!

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Project Everlasting – Book Review

Project Everlasting: Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of Americas Greatest MarriagesProject Everlasting: Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of Americas Greatest Marriages by Mathew Boggs and Jason Miller

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This was a really sweet, When Harry Met Sally-esque book. The short stories were quick and easy to read, and left you with a warm fuzzy feeling and a desire to go and hug your grandparents. I don’t know if I really learned any secrets to marriage, but it was worth the read nonetheless.

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The Notebook – Book Review

The NotebookThe Notebook by Nicholas Sparks

My rating: 1 of 5 stars

I consider myself to be fairly romantic. I enjoy a good chick flick, and a sweet love story will make me cry. This book, however, was sickeningly sweet. Not only did the Noah not have a flaw (handsome, loner, woodsy, poet, devoted, independently wealthy… need I go on?), but he waited for a decade for the love of his life to make her way back to him. This book is unrealistic to the point of absurdity. Books like this upset me because the belittle the everyday romances that are in the world. They may not be lovemaking four times per day by a fireplace, or canoeing to a secluded bird-filled lagoon, but they’re beautiful nonetheless. The only redeeming characteristic of this book was the interaction between the elderly couple as Allie battles Alzheimer’s disease.

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Books I’ve Read but Haven’t Written Reviews For (Yet)

One of my goals is to record all books I read.  I’m a bit behind.  Once in a while I manage to review them on this blog (like here and here), but usually I forget and move onto the next book before I remember to post about them.  Hopefully I’ll find time to review all of these, but just in case, I’ll make a list of recent reads.

  • The Mighty Queens of Freeville: A Mother, a Daughter, and the Town that Raised Them by Amy Dickinson
  • The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks
  • 168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think by Laura Vanderkam
  • Nim’s Island by Wendy Knorr
  • Essential Manners for Couples : from Snoring and Sex to Finances and Fighting Fair–What Works, What Doesn’t, and Why by Peter Post
  • Project Everlasting : Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of America’s Greatest Marriages by Mathew Boggs and Jason Miller
  • The Grapes of Wrath by John Steinbeck
  • Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte

 

On The Bookshelf – Food

I’m focusing on cooking this month, and have developed an interest in eating “real food” – food that doesn’t come from a jar, can, or box.  My last trip to the library was productive, and I’ve got a few more books that look good on hold!


The Cheapskate Next Door – Book Review

Title: The Cheapskate Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of Americans Living Happily Below Their Means

Author: Jeff Yeager

Genre: Nonfiction, financial, self help

Published: Crown Publishing, 2010

Recommended by: The Today Show

Review: Booklist. Starred review.  Ah, yes, belt-tightening is the procedure of the day, from how giant businesses conduct themselves to managing one’s own personal finances. It is the latter aspect of conservative spending that the author of the popular Ultimate Cheapskate’s Road Map to True Riches (2007) and of the blog Green Cheapskate addresses in this delightful—yes, delightful—guide for me, you, and everyone else. Personal finance is a universal concern, particularly in these tight economic times. It is a topic that people need to know about but still shy away from. Yeager is here to draw you in and does so easily. He does not use the term “cheapskate” in a pejorative fashion; after all, he lists himself as one and wishes that all his readers would aspire to cheapskateness. A cheapskate to him is someone who lives below his or her means and does so happily. How to spend less than you are spending now is the program he details; the amazing fact about this book is that in addition to his instructions making perfect sense, like no other book of its kind, this one
can be read simply for the humor of the author’s prose.

Notes: This was an excellent financial guide that I related to in nearly every chapter.  The book included tips and tricks that I’d not thought of, and gave a bolster of support to our already “cheapskate” tendencies.  We’re the most frugal of our group of friends, so it was a relief to know we’re not the only ones out there pinching our pennies and enjoying it in the meantime!

Rating (out of four stars): four stars

Date Finished: 8/30/10

The Secret Life of CeeCee Wilkes – Book Review

Title: The Secret Life of CeeCee Wilkes

Author: Diane Chamberlain

Genre: Suspense, Romance, Realistic Fiction

Publisher: Mira, 2006

Recommended by: Erin at Blue-Eyed Bride

Synopsis: (from the publisher) In 1977, pregnant Genevieve Russell disappeared. Twenty years later, her remains are discovered and Timothy Gleason is charged with murder. But there is no sign of the unborn child.  CeeCee Wilkes knows how Genevieve Russell died, because she was there. And she knows what happened to her missing infant, because two decades ago she made the devastating choice to raise the baby as her own. Now Timothy Gleason is facing the death penalty, and she has another choice to make. Tell the truth and destroy her family. Or let an innocent man die in order to protect a lifetime of lies.

Notes: Again, couldn’t put it down.  I actually had to ask Paul to hide it from me so I could get some work done!  I’m not used to reading suspenseful books – around the middle of the book, I had to read the last three chapters so I could fall asleep.  While I enjoyed reading it at the time, though, I don’t think it’ll be a lasting favorite.  It was very plot-driven – not necessarily a bad thing, but not my favorite type of book.

Rating (out of four stars): three stars

Date Finished: 8/18/10

The Diary of Mattie Spenser – Book Review

Title: The Diary of Mattie Spenser

Author: Sandra Dallas

Genre: Historical Fiction, Pioneer

Year Published: Griffin, 1998

Recommended by: Aunt Joey

Review: Kirkus Reviews. The buoyancy and simple, uncloying sweetness of spirit of Dallas’s appealing protagonist–the young wife of a homesteader in Colorado Territory–give a bright, fresh shading to the tragedies and small sharp joys of 19th-century frontier life. Again, as in The Persian Pickle Club (1995), Dallas has caught the lilt and drift of regional speech. At 22, plain Mattie is astounded that handsome Luke Spenser desires to marry her–he has been keeping company with pretty Persia. Nonetheless, he chooses her, and they head out from Iowa in May 1865 to the homestead Luke has already planted in Colorado Territory. There are pleasures along the way: nice folks, and quiet days spent with Luke, her “Darling Boy.” But Luke, who doesn’t smile at her jokes, works very hard and doesn’t like her to flirt with him. As for the marital act: “I still think it’s overrated.” Danger comes soon enough, and it’s Mattie’s quick shooting that saves two lives, although she doesn’t seriously contradict Luke’s dismissive observation that it was a “lucky shot.” Once they arrive in Colorado, though, Mattie is disappointed by the homestead (out on the plains, she finds, there is “too much sky”). Her education in the real travails of people, particularly women, separated from the cushioning platitudes and quick-step judgments of home, begins immediately. A despised “slattern” proves herself a true friend; Mattie witnesses women weakened by too many births, another abused and horribly killed, and murder and torture by both whites and Indians. She also experiences wild joy and then tragedy, suffers many dangers, and is rocked by Luke’s sudden betrayal. (“How could he ever again be my Darling Boy?”) Yet torment yields to endurance and a kind of compassion. Tragedies and sad little domestic dramas are muffled within the decency and humanity of a character whose understanding–but not essence–changes with events. A modest, appealing novel with a convincing reach into Colorado’s plains and skies.

Notes: I could not put this book down!  A quick, fun read.  It would be worth reading more by this author.

Rating (out of four stars): four stars

Date Finished: 7/15/10